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kendrafitz
07-23-2014, 11:42 PM
SIGH....

So Rosie has been screaming for me more than ever this summer. It got so bad the other night, when she was actually screaming for Ash & her friend i/o me, that I put her to bed early and went and hid upstairs in my room with my headphones turned up full blast. Fortunately, everyone else was out, so she quieted down after a few minutes. She is killing me.

The kicker is, it isn't her fault. The whole toddler thing completely applies here. She has figured out that when the kids are home, it soooo pays to scream. Like a toddler, she figured out how to manipulate the situation to get the results she wants.

Jef and I had been doing our best to ignore the screaming. But then summer started and the kids are home. When Rosie screams, they scream, "MOOOMMMMM, PLEASE!!! GO GET THE BIRD & MAKE HER STOP SCREAMING!!!". So now it is a fun activity bc the whole house is screaming together. Plus, Rosie gets Mommy to come get her, even if Mommy is muttering and swearing under her breath.

I feel like I am getting nothing accomplished at all b/c if I leave Rosie's line of vision, the whole house is in an uproar. As much as I love having the kids home, I will be very happy when things go back to normal. Then we can work on the screaming issue and I can get some things done and maybe catch a breath.

Ok, done venting. It has been a LONG month here at the Fitz Farm. I am hoping to be more active on the forum soon, although it may not be until I can think without a child or bird yelling at me. :)

2birds
07-24-2014, 12:55 AM
I can see how that can become really stressful really quick. Lilliputs did a lot of screaming when she first got here. I'm the only one that had to hear it so it was easy to ignore. I can't imagine if everyone was on my case about it. Now she only screams a couple of times and then stops when nothing happens. Keep on working on it when you can, she will stop.

josiesmom
07-24-2014, 01:12 AM
I know that feeling. Josie has been such a loud mouth since school has been out. She screams at the kids when I'm not here and they get so mad. They will threaten her by saying something mean and completely stupid like I'll put you in the microwave Josie. They never would but her response always cracks them up because she usually says oh no and then laughs. It usually diffuses the situation. She is so sweet when I come home and they get so jealous of that.

Pinkbirdy
07-24-2014, 01:29 AM
I feel for you Kendra ,It has to be hard trying to keep her happy [and the rest of your family]. I had to deal with a maniac Pearl [when he came]. I paid real close attention to when was happy [and kept trying different things.

Mare
07-24-2014, 01:59 AM
What is it with kids and birds? I'm pretty sure it's a maturity issue. I'm hoping to some day get some grandkids from my 30ish year olds so they can finally grow up and get some sense about two year olds!

Mare
07-24-2014, 04:22 AM
I feel for you, Kendra. When Amigo first came to us there was no peace, none. I'm a firm believer, time heals all wounds : it will get better :th_heart:

jtbirds
07-24-2014, 01:21 PM
I completely understand all of this.. actually can relate almost 100%!

Minamommy
09-03-2014, 06:10 AM
I totally understand. I have a 17 year old daughter. She and Mina are arch enemies. Mina has been in our room due to her room getting revamped. So my daughter will come in constantly to talk to me Mina starts screaming over top of Lesleigh talking grrrrr. I want to tell Lesleigh go in your room I will just be a minute to talk to you. *sigh* they both have the little green monster living in them. [emoji37]


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