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luckyandjenn
04-20-2018, 03:46 PM
Offda so you all know im having rough times well things have gotten worse a friend of mine came to see me wich was great got me away from all the stress for a couple days o man so much fun was had. We went to a roller sakting rink and i ended up i fl more then once the last time i fell we left as i thought i had sprained my ankle well the next moring ot looked bad so he took me to urgent care even tho he had to leave latter that day its a good thing he did because i actually have a nondisplaced fracture of the lateral malleolus of my right fibula as well as a closed fracture im reallying stressing im in the middle of loosing the place i live i was just putting in tons of hrs to try and keep this place now i cant do any of that im alone and i cant do much for myself and im complleatly broke lucky is almost out of food idk what to do i dont have anyone here for me so i need a place to let this all off my chest many friends of mine are trying to convinc me to sell the boys and i really dont want to one lucky is mean i dont think anyone would take him all this is breaking my heart im mentaly not ok emotionaly not ok now physical not ok im so sad and i dont know what to do to fix any of this these bords mean the world to me if i dont heal up and find a job soon idk if i can care for them its breaking my heart ive tryed so hard this last past year my husband has been locked up and still have till november. Also i have no power or heat amd its offfly cold in the am and pms and im not sure if its bad for the birds sry for the long all over the place post im just going tru so much and i dont have any family or many friends not ones that understand the way i feel for them and love them.so much

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Dragonlady2
04-20-2018, 08:56 PM
Oh Jen....so sorry to hear about this. For right now, could you contact a parrot shelter to see if they would foster your boys until you get on your feet? You could write up up a contract with them. I don't know what is available in the US, what about social services for temporary support? A women's shelter to see what resources they might be able to direct you to?

PlaxMacaws
04-20-2018, 09:28 PM
I too am sorry to hear about your situation, Jenn. If you've not already done so, you might want to apply for SSI benefits. If someone agrees to take and care for your birds temporarily, beyond your belief that they may be a great friend, PLEASE be sure as well that they are genuinely trustworthy and that they understand what a responsibility it will be to care for your guys! Also, if you contact me privately I will be happy to arrange to have some bird food sent your way.

luckyandjenn
04-21-2018, 01:57 PM
Oh Jen....so sorry to hear about this. For right now, could you contact a parrot shelter to see if they would foster your boys until you get on your feet? You could write up up a contract with them. I don't know what is available in the US, what about social services for temporary support? A women's shelter to see what resources they might be able to direct you to?
I dont think we have bird shelters or rescues here for the boys ill be looking into ssi as idk how long ill be off this foot and as far as shelters I dont think id get much help im so overwhelemed and have no support ill fugire things out I always do

luckyandjenn
04-21-2018, 02:02 PM
I too am sorry to hear about your situation, Jenn. If you've not already done so, you might want to apply for SSI benefits. If someone agrees to take and care for your birds temporarily, beyond your belief that they may be a great friend, PLEASE be sure as well that they are genuinely trustworthy and that they understand what a responsibility it will be to care for your guys! Also, if you contact me privately I will be happy to arrange to have some bird food sent your way.

Ill be looking into ssi all the other times ive tryed for it I got denied maybe now with a broken ankle they would work and yes the friends id have watch them are very trust worthy and her husband loves birds and they have met lucky sry I didnt get back yesterday im in a crappy mood nothing is going right im so sick of fighting I wish things would go right for once

Quakerella
04-23-2018, 02:12 AM
Jen I am so sorry to hear all this, I am not of much help here as I really don't know what services are available in the US. I do hope you find comfort happiness soon. Is there a pet store close buy that you normally buy your food from. Maybe they could help with food. I know sometimes here they sell things off cheap if the packaging is damaged.

Lady
04-23-2018, 03:37 AM
Wow this is a tough situation. What about public assistance, have you tried them? They require a lot of paperwork but I understand that they can give medical help and assist with food. In some situations they can help with bills too.
I'll keep all of you in prayer.

luckyandjenn
04-23-2018, 01:34 PM
Wow this is a tough situation. What about public assistance, have you tried them? They require a lot of paperwork but I understand that they can give medical help and assist with food. In some situations they can help with bills too.
I'll keep all of you in prayer.

I have food stamps and as of now nothing is in my name so i cant recive help with bills and such im more so worried about the cold and the boys ill fugire things out i always do but ya my lifes shot im not happy at all and if it wernt for the pets i would have just given up a long long time ago

luckyandjenn
04-23-2018, 01:36 PM
Wow this is a tough situation. What about public assistance, have you tried them? They require a lot of paperwork but I understand that they can give medical help and assist with food. In some situations they can help with bills too.
I'll keep all of you in prayer.

Pet store down here dont have stuff for birds nothing healthy anyway im in a ****ty susitition and idk how to fix it or make things go the right way and i have no family or friends to help its always been me againt the dam world and i tend to loose alot

Lady
04-29-2018, 05:20 PM
Jenn,
Hang in there, I know we all are hoping things will get better for you soon.

luckyandjenn
04-30-2018, 06:16 PM
Jen I am so sorry to hear all this, I am not of much help here as I really don't know what services are available in the US. I do hope you find comfort happiness soon. Is there a pet store close buy that you normally buy your food from. Maybe they could help with food. I know sometimes here they sell things off cheap if the packaging is damaged.

Ill have to ask when i got in to get luckys nails done next and thanks ive got to stop foucing on all the negitave stuff thoe because then that all that will happen in my life got to try and stay posivite im learining to do it thoe so well see i also just have to take one day at a time instead of think so far donw the road and stressing myself out

luckyandjenn
04-30-2018, 06:19 PM
Jenn,
Hang in there, I know we all are hoping things will get better for you soon.

Thanks they will i have to stop focing on the negitave things and switch the way i think around things will get better my surgery went well and is now over time to not only make my mind better bit my body too thank you all so much for understanding and helping as much as you can