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lolsavannahh
06-08-2016, 03:02 PM
ugghhh here's my #gripe ([Users must be registered and logged in to view attached photos or hyperlinks])

DO any of you remember me complaining about that little girl on another website that was talking about how she wanted a bird.. but was clearly not fit for one, and didn't even seem to want to learn about caring for a parrot? Yeah you remember how mad I was? Well she's back again but now she wants to get 2 parrots and BREED THEM!!!
I have been trying to talk her out of it for a few days now and she won't budge! Here are her exact words:

"To be honest I disagree on what you say that since im in school i won't be able to take care of it, Im sure i will find a way to take care of the babys if the female did had babys, it doesn't really matter if you are in school or not you still will have a lot of thing's to care for, I'm in school but I have a way of taking care of my pet's. To be honest it never to late to learn something new, Ya i might be young to breed the bird but there nothing wrong with it, I mean it life, you will have to learn how to breed or prepare sooner or later. Ya know?

You can always google and read books about birds or watch video, and sometimes learn from your mistake, which it's normal some people learn from their mistake."

She is driving me insane and I honestly don't even want to reply. I know I should, and I am of course very civil, she sounds like she is probably 7 or 8 years old. I tell her it is dangerous for the female to be bred, and that if she decides she doesn't want the baby then she will have to take them in and feed them every 3-4 hours, even overnight.. and if she is in school she won't be able to keep up.. and everything and holy crap she just doesn't care what I have to say at all!! ugghh

#gripe ([Users must be registered and logged in to view attached photos or hyperlinks]) #gripe ([Users must be registered and logged in to view attached photos or hyperlinks]) #gripe ([Users must be registered and logged in to view attached photos or hyperlinks]) !!!

PlaxMacaws
06-08-2016, 05:22 PM
She seems to maintain the attitude that if she fails with the babies or their parents, it will simply be a matter of "oh well... live and learn." She doesn't seem concerned at all about the potential negative (or even devastating) impact upon the poor birds, themselves :(. It's clear to me that she is empathy challenged :th_shakehead:

The Pinkertons
06-08-2016, 11:01 PM
lolsavannahh


Maybe she's, trolling you :th_tease:

Lady
06-09-2016, 12:34 AM
It sure makes me wonder............what is this world coming too :th_sad7:, where are the parents :th_sad14:, is she for real.................:th_shakehead:

lolsavannahh
06-09-2016, 01:36 AM
I don't think so mare.. Do you see her spelling? She is obviously not very educated, whether young or old and dumb XD She does seem to lack empathy and its pissing me off.. these aren't just disposable pieces of trash.. they re sentient beings!!!

mdg1109
06-09-2016, 12:45 PM
I have the same question as Alice, where are the parents? She sounds extremely spoiled and does not probably get told NO. If it were me I would be spiteful enough to do some investigating, find out where she lives and call the local Humane Society or ASPCA and file a complaint. If a complaint gets filed they at least have to check it out and maybe that will wake up the girl and the parents, you can file one anonymously.

lolsavannahh
06-10-2016, 01:32 AM
I don't think I would go that far, but she does need a theoretical slap in the head! She is asking questions now.. Seems to want to know more maybe.. Hope it ends well!

Mare
06-11-2016, 11:21 PM
You could let her know that even though I am an adult, have done lots of research, put a lot of myself (emotionally) into my cockatiel's laying of eggs then hatching..both the babies didn't make it :(. It is a very devastating thing to go through and I know it will be a while before I want to put myself or my birds through that again. It isn't "easy".

lolsavannahh
06-11-2016, 11:30 PM
You could let her know that even though I am an adult, have done lots of research, put a lot of myself (emotionally) into my cockatiel's laying of eggs then hatching..both the babies didn't make it :(. It is a very devastating thing to go through and I know it will be a while before I want to put myself or my birds through that again. It isn't "easy".

Thank you Mare, I will pass the word on.. Even adults sometimes have troubles and it's not that she's a kid that I am cautioning her.. I am sorry to hear about the babies :(

Lady
06-12-2016, 01:40 AM
Ahh Mare,
So sorry to hear about the babies.

kendrafitz
06-12-2016, 07:13 PM
Mare, I'm so sorry!

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Mare
06-12-2016, 08:28 PM
Thank you, folks. I don't know why or what happened, they seemed to be doing well..or so I thought. It really bummed me out for awhile, I didn't want to go there on the forum..hard to talk about.

If I ever venture into raising little ones again..it will only be with tame parents. I think I could have done a better job if I had had easier access to the nesting box. Anyways, we're all back to our "normal" crazy :)

PlaxMacaws
06-13-2016, 03:08 PM
Hey Mare. I too am really sorry about your babies. The world can be so devastatingly harsh. Baby birds are such fragile little beings with so much against them. I know I would never be able to handle losing one :'(. Please try and focus on the positives in your life. You have plenty!

The Pinkertons
06-13-2016, 06:45 PM
So sorry to hear :sad6:

Mare
06-13-2016, 07:20 PM
Savannah, sorry I jacked your thread..how's it going with the girl you've been in contact with?


Thank you, Tony and Suzanne :)

lolsavannahh
06-14-2016, 01:33 AM
Oh my gosh Mare don't feel sorry! It's a hard time for anyone to go through especially first timers. I know you will get it right if you ever decide t try again, and please don't feel sorry, you didn't "jack my thread XD

She hasn't responded is a few days so I am grateful for that!

wingman
06-17-2016, 12:04 AM
Mare so sorry about the babies.
Savannah hope this girl will listen to you or stop pestering you at least.