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Blancaej
10-30-2013, 04:10 PM
We had quite the adventure picking up Coqui. I unfortunately started out first thing with the runs (sorry if TMI) but nothing was going to stop me from picking her up yesterday. A lot of planning went into this! Marcus went to grandmas. Morgan went to a friends after school for a play date and the trailer was reserved! None the less, I was still very excited and felt fine otherwise.

We got a late start as my tire pressure light came on in my car. So we had to stop at work to check that and get gas as well. My hubby is a UHAUL dealer but they didn't have the trailer size we needed around us, so we had to pick that up on the way which added another 20 minutes on. We really wanted to get to Coqui's by 1pm so we could pick up Morgan by 6pm. It was tight, but we made it. Only had a stop for a stretch break and a quick stop for lunch. We were there by 1 and done by 2.

It was a very emotional pick up which I expected. Luis decided to stay which made it all the more difficult for him. It was clear that Linda wanted the adoption but he didn't (He did not express that too me at all while I was there. I was getting this all from Linda). But she insisted on it because although he loved the bird, she did all the work. Which is not really fair to her. And I can clearly see she was getting tired of it. She can't be expected to take care of this bird for him, he needs to do it. But everyone got through it and we got packed in about an hour. I was glad to get through it and be on our way. Linda gave me a big hug and thanked me. She also said it made it easier knowing it was me who was adopting her. She shed some tears as I knew she would. We didn't see much of Luis after we initially arrived.

Linda was nice enough to get Coqui in her carrier 15 minutes before I got there. It is one of those really nice acrylic carriers. It was narrow enough that I could put her in my lap. She seemed to respond well to me. I couldn't really pet her but she kept coming up to my hand. She also kept saying "Hola", which was very cute! She said a couple other things I couldn't quite make out.

I started feeling a bit achy and got a headache a little after us leaving. So I wasn't feeling any better. We stopped only twice for bathroom breaks (surprisingly enough, LOL) but Coqui was so done with that box by time we got home. Which I don't blame her. She paced off and on during the trip but talking to her softly and rubbing my hand on the carrier seemed to calm her down. I also played my kids lullaby CD during the drive to keep the music soft and comforting.

We got home about 6:20pm. She came right out of her carrier on to her perch for me. I tried my arm, but she just stared at it and did a growling noise. Ok, not ready for that! But again, she hopped right onto her perch and came right out. I put her on one of her play gyms in the dinning room to keep her away from the caos of seeing my birds and the moving of her cage.

We had to take her cage apart and put it back together to get it into the house. But that cage was great! So easy to take apart and put back together. I was thankful for that. I brought Savannah to see her in the dinning room and they both puffed up. It was clear, they weren't sure what to think of each other.

After we got her in her cage, I spent some time with Savannah and then once I had them all in the room they both squaked for awhile and Quincy would put his 2 cents in now and then with a few words. I love that Quincy knows how to communicate with words rather then noise! LOL! I chose not to take Quincy out of his cage last night because I knew he would feel more secure in his cage.

I turned the lights off at 8pm and all was quiet. Ahhhh.....peace. :th_biggrin: I then went upstairs, helped get the kids ready for bed and went to bed myself about 10 min to 9pm. It was a long day and I was so ready to get some sleep and feel better!

I woke up feeling much better this morning. It was clear to me that Savannah is feeling very insecure right now. Very needy and more aggressive then usual. I know with time that will pass. She came to the store with me today. So she will have some one on one time with me, which she is enjoying! Quincy bit me this morning going back to his cage. I predicted that would happen. LOL! I am being considerate to all of there feeling as I know this is a BIG change in there life. Again, with time, this too shall pass.

I let Coqui out of her cage this morning, she was ready. Put her on her play gym in the bird room. Not thinking anything of it. Well she flew to her cage (it's only a few feet) and climbed right on top! Ugh! I really wanted to avoid that. It took me 10 minutes to get her down. I needed to because I needed to go to work. I gave her a little while, but she was still up there. I finally attempted to get her on her perch. Nope, that's not happening. I used another perch, hoping to get her on hers. Nope, still not happening. Tried the towel. Nope, still not happening. Had to pull her cage out so I could access both sides. The problem with Macaw cages is they are so ginormous that it's hard to reach them up there. By this time she is pretty aggravated at me. LOL! Finally she comes down to her door and I was able to get her on my perch. Not that she was willing, but it happened anyway. The best part of this little story is she let me pet her for a bit before I put her in her cage and she totally calmed down.

Once in her cage I softly told her "Kiss, Kiss". Linda had told me that she becomes a sweetheart when you say that. Well it worked like a charm. She came right over and let me give her scratches on the head. I pet her quite a few times more before leaving for work. She did try biting me a couple of times without success. Sneaky little girl! LOL! She did get me once, but nothing to write home about and I told her to be gentle. She was. She is a sweet girl. Just scared right now.

So, not to make a long story short. He He! All is good and everyone is settling in. I know tensions may be high for awhile until everyone knows where they stand, but I know with time and patience things will be back to normal and all my birdie babies will be happy.

Sorry I wrote a book. :th_biggrin:

Honesty
10-30-2013, 05:38 PM
It seems you had quite the adventure yesterday Blanca:) Its a shame you were ill though!

I think Luis will eventually realise that he did the right thing. Like you say, he could not have expected Linda to do all the work on a permanent basis. They obviously know that Coqui has gone to an excellent home and will be well cared for. This will at least give them peace of mind.

I can just visualize Coqui getting on top of the cage this morning. They know where to go to make it difficult to get to them LOL

It sounds like she is going to settle in well. After a few days I am sure Savannah and Quincy will get used to her and hopefully they will all get along:)
What do the Children think to her?

spiritbird
10-30-2013, 05:45 PM
No I am sorry needed here. We would love reading anything you write about your adventures. I am glad you feel better, must have been nervous yourself. Now you have a nice new room for the fids and they will all thrive on your care and love!!:th_heart:

Blancaej
10-30-2013, 05:48 PM
Thanks Wendy! I think they both know that she is in a good place now. I do understand that these things are not easy. In time, it will get better for them I am sure.

Oh yeah, she was quite content and happy up there. LOL! But at least I got her down eventually. :th_biggrin:

Savannah is enjoying being here at work with me today. I know Quincy will be fine. Except for the bite (which I really think was because he wasn't ready to go back in his cage because he was cooped up all day yesterday) he has been acting pretty normal.

The kids are loving Coqui very much. She gets a little excited and puts on all the alerts when they are around. She hasn't been around kids much, so it will be an adjustment for her.

plax
10-30-2013, 06:10 PM
It's good to hear Coqui is finally home and that she is now on the 'adjustment and settling in' path at her new home and with her new family! :th_biggrin: Naturally, with multiple birds it may take a bit longer (for Coqui, AND for the others).

You might want to consider having a stepladder handy to provide you some elevation potential if/when Coqui ends up on the cage top again. I've found that placing a stepladder beside a large Macaw cage will enable one to reach across the cage top from a single location (if necessary). It beats running from one side of the cage to the other as your bird in turn moves away from the side you approach each time ;)

Blancaej
10-30-2013, 06:59 PM
No I am sorry needed here. We would love reading anything you write about your adventures. I am glad you feel better, must have been nervous yourself. Now you have a nice new room for the fids and they will all thrive on your care and love!!:th_heart:

Thanks Dianne! I'm glad you guys love sharing in my fid adventures. :th_biggrin:

Blancaej
10-30-2013, 07:02 PM
It's good to hear Coqui is finally home and that she is now on the 'adjustment and settling in' path at her new home and with her new family! :th_biggrin: Naturally, with multiple birds it may take a bit longer (for Coqui, AND for the others).

You might want to consider having a stepladder handy to provide you some elevation potential if/when Coqui ends up on the cage top again. I've found that placing a stepladder beside a large Macaw cage will enable one to reach across the cage top from a single location (if necessary). It beats running from one side of the cage to the other as your bird in turn moves away from the side you approach each time ;)

Thanks Tony! It's hard to see them nervous about change, but it is inevitable. I know they will get through it! I had a step ladder and used it! LOL! I am 5 foot 4, and can reach about center, but not clear across the roof of the cage. Maybe I need a taller step ladder....hmmmm, something to think about! :th_hmmm:

Mare
10-31-2013, 12:34 AM
Yay! I'm so happy to hear that Coqui is home! I'm sure she will adjust, especially with you and a loving family. I agree, a step ladder is a must for birds on high cages! :)

Blancaej
10-31-2013, 12:49 AM
Thanks Mare! We had some time together this afternoon and it went well. I had mentioned to Tony I have a step ladder I used this morning, but I may need to get a taller one because I could still only reach half way across the cage! LOL!

So I spent 3 half hour sessions with Coqui this afternoon. When I got home she was in her nervous mode of rocking back and forth and all puffed up. I gave her the opportunity to come out on her perch. She just stayed on her door perch so I closed her door and let her stay in her cage. I figured she was not ready to come out so I wasn't going to push the issue. I talked to her for 30 minutes and half way into our talk she was letting me pet her head and play with her tongue. I do find that when the kids come into the room she goes to nervous mode (rocking back and forth and puffed up) and begins to lunge at me when they are around. But I don't react and just talk to her calmly. For now, I am trying to keep the kids out of the room when I'm sitting with her. That seems to help. She also did it when my hubby came home. Again, she calmed down when he left the room. She is not used to having kids or other birds around. It was just Linda, Luis and their cats. So she is going to need some time to get used to her new environment.

Here are some pics I took while sitting with her.

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Hanging out!
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This is not a very good picture, She is upside down and I am playing with her tongue. It was hard to take pictures with one hand on my phone! LOL! Brad tried, but when he came into the room, Coqui wasn't so cudly anymore.
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A nice scratch!
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I love this pic!
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Mare
10-31-2013, 01:29 AM
Blanca, you are the perfect new owner for a bird. If I came back as a bird, I would hope I landed in your lap :)

Blancaej
10-31-2013, 01:38 AM
A[Users must be registered and logged in to view attached photos or hyperlinks] you Mare! :th_biggrin: That means a lot. :)

Blancaej
10-31-2013, 03:55 PM
I had a good morning with Coqui this morning. I stayed home later this morning because we have trick or treating tonight. No one else in the house but me. I opened up her cage with her on her door perch and she still didn't want to step up on her perch to get out. I respected that but decided to keep the door partially open. I reached in and had a great petting session with her. I was able to pet her all over her head, play with her tongue, and even her feet! I even kissed her on the beak! :th_eek: She then started mouthing me and pinching. So I knew she was done. But I thought she did awesome! She goes from super sweet then into gorilla mode. LOL! It's like she wants to trust me but still isn't sure and goes around her cage making growly noises banging toys and lunging at me. But I don't budge. I'm trying to teach her that doesn't scare me. He He! I tell her "Such a big tough girl, but mama is not afraid of you. I know you are a big sweetheart."

So we had a good morning. She talked quite a bit, too! Said Hello, Doctor, Bye Bye, Stick 'em. up She does this cute thing that Linda taught her. If you say "stick'em up" she says it back and raises her wings. It's very cute. She also was saying peekaboo back to me when I was saying it to her. LOL! We are coming along at a good pace. When she is not in gorilla mode (as I like to call it) she is a real sweetheart and loves to get some lovin' :) I am starting to get the sense she is missing me when I leave the room. :th_wink: But she is a big girl and doesn't want me to know that yet. He He!

plax
10-31-2013, 04:03 PM
I'm so glad that Coqui is doing well, Blanca. You can't blame her for testing for control options ...she wants to find out what's possible ;)

Blancaej
10-31-2013, 04:10 PM
Exactly! LOL! And I don't blame her at all. :th_wink: